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Yesterday was another year and another decade, and everything seems to continue on pretty much the same. Thursday follows Wednesday. Schedules carry on. That's just the way life is...or is it?
As a New Year rolls around and you choose a fresh new diary, do you get a new burst of energy to create? It is the formal break from the past and into a new future.
I notice that the annual public media discussion about New Year's Resolutions has a strange component to it: the statistics for how many people break their Resolution and how soon.
Although this is not helpful, it is useful to notice everyone's energy around it. You see, instead of anchoring the Resolution to a new future, this attention on the failed attempts anchors it to the past - but only the negative past.
Change comes with persistence and focus on what you want. Think about the person you were a year ago. Yes, your personality is still there, even the bits you hoped to transcend and change this past year. But you are not the same person now as you were then. You have expanded your viewpoint and your awareness. You have taken some new directions, even if in hindsight they appear blended into the wallpaper of your life now.
You are getting new answers because you have been asking new questions, so it is fine to set the same resolution, goal or intention as you started with last year. Remember that "the past does not equal the future". This is truly a New Year. And the energy around that break from the past is powerful, because it is a shared worldwide consciousness. Use that power to create, and prepare to put something in place for a needed boost of creating energy for early February. You will need it as the powerful energy begins to retract.
For now however, get in touch with what you want and get focussed on it. Write it in your diary and begin to take action on it. Just get started and ask for the discipline to follow through as needed. But first, let the energy of the New Year get you started on your New Future, with you firmly inside it.
Abundant blessings,
Lori
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Imagine if someone asked this: "how can i attract love back when my mind is filled with all the things that went wrong? As well as not loving how I look. when I know that the best way to attract love into our lives is by loving ourselves first. It may seem straight forward to all of you. but it is not to me. I am overweight and I hate it and unable to change it because of medicines. Help" This is a real plea I received from someone very low in life, and here is my answer....
In the context of SPEED Manifesting, we use a specific simple way of working on one intention with a process that allows you to realize your desire. Your current circumstances have nothing to do with the next reality. If you change only a few things moving forward, all possibilities in 'the future' shift to new possibilities. It all starts with our thinking. It is frustrating to have a condition of our life that persists even though we don't want it to be there.
For you, your message is this: you already have the full capacity to love yourself, because you have the desire to. You are currently experiencing 'not loving myself' so that you can fully appreciate what it means to unabashedly love yourself, your body, your hair, your skin and your eyes - windows to your soul. You are a beautiful magnificent creature, more than worthy of your own love. You can release your judgement of yourself when you truly release judgements of others, and that path comes through forgiveness. That is, forgiveness of yourself and forgiveness of the domination from others in their lost search for meaning and significance. They are sorry that they hurt you, and thankful for your allowing them to find this. And the same goes for you. Tomorrow is about you, not them, though. Let them go, then start here:
1. Write down a clear statement of what you want - "I love myself fully. I am love in every cell of my body"
2. Imagine with Emotion - form a picture in your mind of a beautiful, vital, vibrant you doing what you love in joy and bliss. Draw it; paint it, speak it to yourself, whatever works best to stir up the feelings of acceptance.
3. Feel Gratitude - each morning wake up and choose a couple things that you are so happy to have - find the good in something in your life and replace the old mind with new thoughts. Give your old mind new orders to follow. Tonight before you go to bed, Ask the Universe for the strength and love you need to fulfil this and start it tomorrow morning.
4. Think deliberately - about this one intention. Stay focused on it in your thoughts like a laser. When your mind wanders back to the bad thoughts, go to gratitude and repeat your Intention "I am learning to love myself fully and that feels better every day."
5. Beware the Power and Poison of Words - Listen to yourself. If you catch yourself complaining or discussing your current unwanted circumstances, know that you are recreating them by speaking them. Stop yourself each time you begin to speak about them and change your conversation - dynamically.
6. Take Action - act like a person would, who loves their body and themselves. Be self centered. It's ok to put yourself first. Ask for what you want, with gentleness and love. Act out being a loving person to yourself and to others.
7. Circulate for Abundance - an increase of love means circulating and releasing love to allow it in. Give love to others; give a smile to those who do not give to you. Call a friend that you haven't called in a while and give them the time to talk about them, not you. Release all that is unused in your home and that will allow more to come in, in all areas.
The love you attract is already here waiting for you. Your angels love you just as you are. They see your struggle and know you are doing the best you can. They do not need your acknowledgement or love. They just love you, because you exist as you are.
You are an awesome physical spirit with a strength that overwhelms you but when you fall in love with YOU, you are going to see how awesome your directed love exists as NOW.
Abundance, Lori